The Style Mermaid by Kisty Mea

Seven Things About Cyberbullying

  1. People will bully you because they have too much time to spare. People who are busy don’t have the time to bring you down.  
  2. Bullies are not always the ugly people. Sometimes, evil takes form in a drop dead gorgeous girl, like Regina George. They can be witty and funny. You might even adore them!
  3. They will always think they’re better than you but in reality, they’re not. They might be prettier than you, claim that they’re more mature than you and might have more supporters than you… But believe me, they’re not better than you. Because if they were, then I don’t see the reason for them to bully you. 
  4. Any form of negative thoughts, if not treated, can be quite addictive. When they talk shit about you, it makes them feel better about themselves and if no one stops them, it’s going to get worst. Also, negative thoughts comes out in your body language.
  5. Ignore them. It’s tempting to fight back, to defend yourself but it’s not really worth it. 
  6. If you ignore them long enough, sometimes, they’ll go away. Sometimes, they won’t. 
  7. If they don’t go away, then learn to understand them and hopefully, learn to be compassionate to them. I know this must be really crazy but compassion is the only way to go because it’s better than consuming their negativity. 

Life, most especially for teens, is nothing but a big Mean Girls movie and though everybody wants to be Regina George, aim to be a Cady Heron by doing the right thing.

(via sealovechild)

The Style Mermaid | Kisty Mea • Twenty Things For A Happy Life
by Kisty Mea
Believe in yourself. You’re the only game changer of your life. 
Forgive yourself for the mistakes you’ve made. Love yourself for all the good things you possess.
Explore. Dream. Discover. - Mark Twain
Pursue your sky-high dreams while keeping your feet on the ground. 
You can only access the road to success when you’ve decided to stop scrutinizing other people’s feat. Learn to overcome envy.
Challenge yourself. Strive yourself to be better each and every single day. 
Remember, you’re a star. You have the ability to shine and make the world a brighter place.
To find true happiness, you need to stop searching for it out there and just be content with what you have.
Things don’t always work out as planned. Don’t fret. All you need to do is take a deep breath, keep calm and carry on.
Surround yourself with positive energy. Always.
Appreciate yourself.
One of the many secrets to a happy life is to find the people who will genuinely appreciate you for who you are.
You don’t need to sail the seven seas to experience the adventure of your life. All you really need is to live life creatively.
"When you want something, all the universe conspires in helping you to achieve it." - The Alchemist
A red lipstick can brighten any gloomy day.
When in doubt, don’t. - Benjamin Franklin
The people who know the least about you always have the most to say. Don’t mind them. 
Be the better person. Stand on higher ground but don’t be pompous.
Amazing things happen to good people. 
Live to inspire and be inspired.

Twenty Things For A Happy Life

by Kisty Mea

  1. Believe in yourself. You’re the only game changer of your life. 
  2. Forgive yourself for the mistakes you’ve made. Love yourself for all the good things you possess.
  3. Explore. Dream. Discover. - Mark Twain
  4. Pursue your sky-high dreams while keeping your feet on the ground. 
  5. You can only access the road to success when you’ve decided to stop scrutinizing other people’s feat. Learn to overcome envy.
  6. Challenge yourself. Strive yourself to be better each and every single day. 
  7. Remember, you’re a star. You have the ability to shine and make the world a brighter place.
  8. To find true happiness, you need to stop searching for it out there and just be content with what you have.
  9. Things don’t always work out as planned. Don’t fret. All you need to do is take a deep breath, keep calm and carry on.
  10. Surround yourself with positive energy. Always.
  11. Appreciate yourself.
  12. One of the many secrets to a happy life is to find the people who will genuinely appreciate you for who you are.
  13. You don’t need to sail the seven seas to experience the adventure of your life. All you really need is to live life creatively.
  14. "When you want something, all the universe conspires in helping you to achieve it." - The Alchemist
  15. A red lipstick can brighten any gloomy day.
  16. When in doubt, don’t. - Benjamin Franklin
  17. The people who know the least about you always have the most to say. Don’t mind them. 
  18. Be the better person. Stand on higher ground but don’t be pompous.
  19. Amazing things happen to good people. 
  20. Live to inspire and be inspired.

Goodnight, Tree Hill

One Tree Hill changed my life. I believe that this TV show made me who I am today. I’m saying this because this TV show was not just a show, it’s basically real life.

They’ve introduced different characters, with different situations and personalities, that you’re bound to find someone you could relate to the most. And from there, this character and the people surrounding him/her will help you during the good and bad times. Honestly, I’m lost for words. I just feel really, really sad coz’ this show was like my visual guide to life. This show was always there for me whenever I’m going through a rough time, whether it’s trying to figure out who I am or finding true love in a haystack. 

One of the many things that this show has taught me is that we all make mistakes but they won’t instantly make us bad people. They were just bad choices and we’ll make it right, maybe not today or tomorrow, but we’ll make things right again. 

I’ll miss One Tree Hill. I’ll miss everyone. I’ll miss Lucas’ words of wisdom, Haley’s strength, and most especially, Brooke’s courage and love. 

I just have so many feelings right now

  1. I just want to lay in bed and mourn over the pain happening in my abdomen. :( 
  2. When I was in high school, when it hurts too much, I go to the clinic and ask for hot compress. They’ll advise me to rest for 15 minutes but I purposely go to sleep because I don’t want to go to class. WORKS EVERY TIME! 
  3. My naturally curly hair is getting long now. I’m guessing, it’s about five to six inches long now. But I’m happy coz’ even if they’re getting longer, they’re ‘following’ how I like my hair to be. Before, I’ve always felt that they’re all over the place. 
  4. Finally got to watch The Other Guys and Johnny English Reborn. Funny movies, ftw! :D
  5. "If I were a lion and you were a tuna, I would swim out in the middle of the ocean and freaking eat you and then I’d bang your tuna girlfriend."
  6. CAN YOU LIKE KEEP YOUR EVIL THOUGHTS FOR YOURSELF? It’s not pretty. 
  7. Item #6 is not for anyone in Tumblr, in case you’re the kind of person who likes to assume. 
  8. I swear, I just want to go home and lie in bed. :(
  9. Tomorrow, Titanic 3D hits the cinemas. Watch Jack die… in 3D! I demand 3D tears for this.
  10. Also, American Reunion tomorrow! I LOVE FUNNY MOVIES! 
  11. OMG TUMBLR I AM NOT EVEN DONE BUT YOU’VE PUBLISHED MY ENTRY ALREADY. WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU? 
  12.  
  13. … lol adding these numbers because ending a list on #11 looks weird. 
  14. I WILL USE MY LAPTOP’S HEAT AS MY “COMPRESS”. GENUIS LOL!